Appreciating Yourself with Masturbation

Masturbation is often considered to sin and destroy the body because it can cause many diseases that are settled. For example, loss of ability to view, weaken the structure of nerve, become abnormal genital development, bringing the testicles disease, spine weak, weak sperm, it is difficult to have children, the body so weak and thin to affect the ability of the brain.

However, in Western countries, the notion that masturbation disadvantage has long ignored. Betty Dodson, sex educators and teachers from the United States masturbate, argue that masturbation is a behavior and the core of the sexual image of ourselves. "Masturbation is the first form of sexual expression," said Dodson's book Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving. "Masturbation can make you independent for life," he added.

According to him, masturbation is a way for us to learn themselves about sexual response. Skills learned this is called sexual skills. Like the others, the sexual skills that must be learned and done to be enjoyed.

"This is an opportunity for us to find our physical and reason for all the sexual secrets that we hide from ourselves. Is there a better way to enjoy the sexual creativity than with masturbation? With masturbation, we feel a sense of escape because it does not need to meet satisfactory standards or couples to enjoy sex or fear of being criticized and rejected, "said Dodson.

Dodson is not alone in their opinions about the important role of masturbation in human life. According to experts, many of us started to discover sex through masturbation since childhood. Children under five have started to examine their genitals.

"Parents would be wise to deal with. When they banned just like that, when the child's adolescence and adulthood will have difficulty with sexual functioning because they felt 'dirty' with yourself. If that happened, how she can enjoy sex with their spouse when married someday, "said Lianny Hendranata, author of Sexuality Magic Keys to Happiness.

Feelings of "dirty" with the self can affect self-image and how to look to ourselves. Either we can hate with ourselves. As Nancy Friday disclosed in his book The Power of Beauty, hate myself cause negative behavior toward their own genitals. In fact, our opinions about the pubic that is central about the overall picture of ourselves.

Poor view of ourselves that will prompt others to look bad as well. "By not aware of our self-image cameras that store images that are bad for visits in between our thighs and our two shy look in the mirror. Ugly views in genitalia were projected onto other body parts, like nose, leg, and all of them. Self-correction that ensued expressed dissatisfaction with ourselves, "explained Lianny.